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I Was Betrayed by Friends During 2023 Elections — Remi Tinubu
The First Lady, Senator Oluremi Tinubu, says she was overwhelmed with fear, doubt and isolation, which questioned her readiness to take on the role of First Lady of Africa’s most populous country.
In her 52-page memoir, titled The Journey of Grace: Giving Thanks in All Things, released to mark her 65th birthday, and obtained by Saturday PUNCH, the First Lady said the pressure came after the 2023 general election.
The five-chapter memoir is arranged by year from 2021 to 2025, with a foreword by Dr. Folashade Olukoya of Mountain of Fire and Miracles Ministries.
Mrs Tinubu said she often felt unprepared to serve as First Lady of a nation of more than 240 million people.
“As for me, I had a lot of mixed feelings, questioning my readiness and capability to function effectively and optimally as the First Lady of so great a nation as ours.
“A nation with over 240 million people from diverse cultures, ethnicities, languages, religions, etc.
“For days, I isolated, pondering on my ability to play the supportive and complementary role without messing up,” she recounted.
The First Lady said in the days after the presidential election and before her husband’s inauguration on May 29, 2023, she was often left weeping in private and wrestling with a sense of betrayal from political allies she had once trusted.
“After all the elections in 2023, preceding the inaugural day of May 29, 2023, healing of the hearts began. Some Nigerians from various spheres, especially Christians, continued to refuse to accept the Presidential results.
“Despite the victory, I felt alone, weeping behind closed doors and wondering why I was betrayed by some of those I considered friends and spiritual family, many of whom I had opened up my home and my family to.
“While for some, God used them to comfort and reassure me of God’s purpose in all of this,” she wrote.
She admitted to holding what she called “pity parties” while questioning her own strength.
“If you say, occasionally, I had a pity party, you are right, I really did. I thought about who to reach out to for support and counselling.
“It is good to have a spiritual guide, parent, teacher, mentor, as the case may be. I had one, who is a teacher and a mentor, who constantly reminds me of God’s promises and purpose for my life.
“Somewhere along the way, I forgot because the drowning voices of some naysayers clouded my reasoning for that moment. Until I was reminded of all God has spoken over my life, all over again,” Mrs. Tinubu narrated.
Her reflections come barely three years after the 2023 general elections,
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